Imagine watching
an episode of a television show that you do not normally watch with the sound turned
off. Try and determine what the relationships
of the characters are based on the ways in which they are communicating “in
silence”. Then, watch the same episode
with the sound turned on. Were your
assumptions correct?
I tried this
with “The Big Bang Theory” which I have never watched but heard about. I was told before that it was a comedy sitcom. The episode starts with a man sitting at a
computer and looking at it attentively.
A woman enters the room and it seems as if she is coming for a class because
she sits and the man goes to a whiteboard and begins to write and talk. The man becomes agitated when the woman is
unable to respond to what are apparently questions on his part. Her face shows dismay and confusion, and his
wavers between impatience and anger.
This continues for some time. The
relationship between the parties appears to be a tutor and student.
When I watch the
scene again with the sound on, there are some variations. At the start of the scene when the man is
staring intently at the computer screen, he is thinking in his mind and we can
hear it. He makes reference to the fact
that he will be trying to tutor the woman (who is a friend and not just a student)
but he has doubts on her ability to understand.
When the woman arrives, the emotions that I noted above are correct as
the man is impatient with the woman who is not very quick on learning the physics
concepts. Also, the woman is dismayed
and feels dejected because of her inability to understand.
If I was familiar
with the show, I think that my assumptions would have been correct because I
would be more familiar with the characters in their relational, situational and
cultural contexts.
One “aha” moment
that I had was that words do not always infer communication. A person can communicate just as effectively
sometimes with non-verbal cues which can include gestures, body movement,
facial expressions, eye contact touch and physical appearance.
Sheryl,
ReplyDeleteYou are so right, non-verbal communication is so powerful. I also found this to be a very interesting assignment!
Alissa